Let's
face it, technology is AMA-ZING! It is the very thing that is
allowing me to even disseminate this information so widely and so very
fast. However, as awesome as this is, it comes with its own concerns.
One of them being our increasingly unhealthy attachment to our devices,
apps and cyber social networks. So, for our own sake, a digital detox
can really put it all in perspective and help our mental health,
significantly. The following are a few ways to a take break from the
screen and feel the difference:
Un-plugging
can help in alleviating feelings of jealously, inadequacy and
loneliness: from body image to family/friend happiness, seeing
everyone's curated social networks can increase the feelings of
jealously, not realizing they are coming up for reasons that are not
even real, but for a projected self others place online.
Lessening
FOMO (fear of missing out): this new term that reflects our feelings of
missing out on things that we are not a part of or were unable to
attend for some reason. Finding happiness in our current state (after
turning off the screen) is an act of mindfulness that can lessen the
feelings of FOMO and aid in higher enjoyment of our own day to day
activities.
Right
before your eyes: life is happening right in front of us all the time,
by covering our eyes with a screen, we place our minds in a virtual
space and neglect our very surroundings. Turning off that screen, and
looking forward, being present, and smelling the roses, so to speak, can
be wondrous, even if you are only able to do it on your lunch break.
Schedule these moments into your day if need be, they are totally worth
it. There
are a number of internet tools (ironically) to help in powering down,
SelfControl will help in blocking access to whichever sites you ask it
to (Facebook, G-mail, a blog, etc.) and allow access to the rest of the
internet simultaneously and Freedom will block internet.
In
addition, it maybe beneficial to power down completely for an extended
period of time periodically. Whether its for a weekend, a week or
several weeks, and see how you feel, what you learned about yourself and
how your relationships changed. Feel the enrichment of your
relationships. Evaluate for yourself the numerous benefits of
un-plugging.
For more on this topic:
http://healthland.time.com/2013/01/24/why-facebook-makes-you-feel-bad-about-yourself/
http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/is-fomo-depriving-us-of-our-ability-to-exist-in-the-present-and-take-pleasure-in-the-here-and-now-8449677.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ berkeley-wellness/what-are- the-health-benefits-of- unplugging_b_8917956.html
http://healthland.time.com/2013/01/24/why-facebook-makes-you-feel-bad-about-yourself/
http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/is-fomo-depriving-us-of-our-ability-to-exist-in-the-present-and-take-pleasure-in-the-here-and-now-8449677.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/
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